Over the last couple of years shailis has had this negative attitude, several other out bursts, abnormal facial expressions & some emotional problems. Finally Steve & I said, "there has got to be something bothering her that is out of her control! We need to have her evaluated to find out what is going on & what we as parents can do to help her!".
Yesterday we took Shailis to her therapy appointment. We were there from 8:45 am until 12:00pm.
Her therapist is a very nice lady by the name of Mary. Shailis warmed up to her quickly and they got along well.
After a long series of questions & interactions with Shailis we were informed that she has/ is showing signs of ODD (oppositional defiant disorder), ADHD ( attention deficit hyperactivity disorder) & some anxiety.
Steve & I are now attending a class every Tuesday night for parents that have children with ODD. We elected to take parent classes & be involved every step of the way to help her!
Her therapist will continue to evaluate her behavior over the next couple of weeks before she makes a final evaluation report. Then Shailis will have to see a psychologist & primary care provider for further treatment options. However, prescription drugs is on the bottom of our list!
We are trying to target the main problem (s) with therapy, classes & more parent involvement before we take the approach of medicine.
Steve & I enjoyed the class an have began to learn a good amount of information that will help Shailis & our relationship with her.
Hopefully at the end of all this our daughter will finally be better behaved & more importantly help her with any self-esteem issues she has to help our family work better together :)
*I love you Shailis! *Mommy-n- Daddy will do anything we can to help you! *now & always*
Wednesday, January 21, 2009
Therapy
Tuesday, January 13, 2009
Hexagram
Your Present Hexagram
Overview is a time for composure and contemplation. As a result of profound introspection, a hidden force reveals itself, and may influence others without their being aware of it. Do not underestimate the power of such a subtle force. Like the wind blowing across the treetops, its presence is perceived through the effect it has on everything it touches.
Shallow wells rarely strike water and shallow minds often come up empty. The ability to keep still and simply observe deepens resolve and attracts good fortune. Discern the difference between what is deep and what is surface within yourself — and you will be able to distinguish between the two in the world as well.
During a period between events, the practice of stillness with awareness is fruitful. Only by observing and absorbing the true nature of things — by apprehending the rhythms and cycles that guide all creation — can we discover the laws that apply to our own individual lives. Examine yourself and the overall situation — not just with the thought of discovering truth, but with the vision of concentrating your personal power.
Sunday, January 11, 2009
21 Advices
ONE. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
TWO. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.
THREE. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.
FOUR. When you say, 'I love you,' mean it.
FIVE. When you say, 'I'm sorry,' look the person in the eye.
SIX. Be engaged at least six months before you get married.
SEVEN. Believe in love at first sight.
EIGHT. Never laugh at anyone's dreams. People who don't have dreams don't have much.
NINE. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely.
TEN.. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.
ELEVEN. Don't judge people by their relatives.
TWELVE. Talk slowly but think quickly.
THIRTEEN! .. When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, 'Why do you want to know?'
FOURTEEN. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
FIFTEEN. Say 'bless you' when you hear someone sneeze.
SIXTEEN. When you lose, don't lose the lesson.
SEVENTEEN. Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; and Responsibility for all your actions.
EIGHTEEN. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.
NINETEEN. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
TWENTY. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice
TWENTY- ONE. Spend some time alone.
A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart.
Thursday, January 1, 2009
NEW YEARS '09
We had a lil kiddo party this year for new years! It was FUN :)
We lit off fire works, drank sparkling cider, had yummy treats & made crafts.
Monday, December 29, 2008
I am getting very annoyed with a few things in life.
Why is it so hard for others to be kind?
Why is it so hard to treat others the way you'd like to be treated?
If all you do is judge others life's, have you stopped to think why they are in that situation?
Have you thought how you'd feel if you were in that situation? or what you could do to help?
Are you God? NO!!! STOP judging other people!!!!! That's God's job not yours!
Why do you sit and bad mouth your friends? Then call or hangout with them like they're your friends? If they were your friends you would not talk so negative about the ones you care for!
Do you realize how much hate we have in this world?
What have you done to make a change?
What have you done to make a difference?
Have you looked at your life? Is it really that much better than the next person's?
We're alive right? That's what matters!
Everyday we have been blessed to breath & be loved is a gift!
Yet you're probably more focused on how much money you spend on your gifts..
Do you realize their are children that don't have name brand clothes, video games, food to eat, a house to live in, a vehicle to get around in so they walk miles, shoes on their feet and the list goes on!
Why do you complain about not being able to buy a brand new truck, name brand clothes, expensive cell phones and other electronics? This list can go on..
Do you realize how materialistic you sound?
Have you made a mistake? We all have! there is no perfect person!
The only way you learn is by knowledge, mistakes, questions, watching others and by change!
Why do you sit and make fun of other people? Does it really make you feel better? Try to look at what you can do to fix your insecurities instead of pointing the finger at someone else!
Are your hands clean? Don't point the finger at other people if the hand that's pointing isn't clean!!!
Remember the character of a man is showed by the ignorance of his actions!
Why do you treat animals like dirt? Remember we walk on dirt and even that is a blessing to be here!
Most animals are Mammals just like us!
Do you realize they have feelings? How would you feel if you were slapped every time you talked loud?
How would you feel being chained to a tree in 30 degree weather?
Oh does my list go on!!!!
My point...
Stop being so negative! Life is more beautiful when positivity is em brassed in our life's!
Unless You can take a day to live in that other person's shoes, house or mind, Don't judge them!
Take time for what matters in your life. The ones who mind don't matter and the ones who matter won't mind!
Rid your life and mind of pointless stress and drama!
Everyone & everything has a purpose and meaning in life, so give all you can to make a better life for yourself and others!
In the end you will feel the joy of happiness :)
Interesting....
I have noticed that my blog has been viewed quite a bit yet no comments???
is it really that hard 2 take an extra minute of your time 2 express yourself?
Thats what this site is 4 ya know...
I remember everyone kept saying why haven't you been on your blog? or when are you going 2 upload new pix? blah blah blah...
So I do & nothing... yet you take the time 2 comment on others blogs... Hmm...
Anyway I'm done complaining now!
I will still continue 2 do my blog because I enjoy it so I guess thats all that matters lol
